Saturday, 16 December 2023

Yesterday

Overwhelmed understates this feeling. Every year I feel like this, and it never gets any less emotional. 

Back in 2006, I returned to work after maternity leave. Following Isaac’s diagnosis and subsequent ill health and long periods in hospital, I was probably more fragile than I actually realised. I work in publishing, a job I adore, and I soon felt cushioned by my incredible colleagues. That December, trying to figure out how to fairly share out the gifts we had from suppliers (these were the days before compliance rules), the idea of a charity raffle was born, and the CF Trust was chosen as our cause. Once started, it became a small tradition, a few dozen people congregated in our little work kitchen, ate cake, and the draw was held. Even then, the kind words and support left me choked up (it took me many years before I was fully able to talk about CF and its impact on our family). 

The tradition, once started, grew. Colleagues started not only buying tickets, but also donating prizes themselves too. The draw marked the start of our festive period, and as we grew as a business, more and more people came. In 2020, floored by the pandemic and the relentless impact of CF on Isaac’s health, I assumed we would break and reconvene the next year. 

Enter Heather! Not accepting defeat, and recognising that at this difficult time, coming together for a good cause was more important than ever, Heather took over the organising and we took the event online and further, global for the first time, meaning our overseas colleagues could also join. Thanks to Heather, her team, Richard (our poetic host), the many colleagues that offer entertainment at the event (Charlotte, most notably) and Paul, we reached a new level, with colleagues dialling in from the US, Spain, Mexico, India and more. Since then, we have continued; this has become more than a custom, it’s a part of who we are as a group. More than 150 people attend or call in. Yesterday we raised a whopping £3,000. 

To say this means a lot to our family is an understatement. Any regular readers of this blog will recognise how much Isaac’s life has shrunk lately, due to ill health. The last few months have been difficult. Life revolves around home, treatments, hospital, and training his puppy. He is no longer able to work or be in education. Without fundraising for critical research, and raising much needed awareness of CF, not only would we be no closer to a cure, but I would personally feel significantly more powerless. 

My family, friends and colleagues have collectively raised over £98,000 for the CF Trust since Isaac was diagnosed. I have played only a part in this, and that part has only been made possible by all the support I receive from friends and family. 

We have huge hope, and we have never been closer to a chance for a different quality of life for Isaac (in his case, this will likely be through groundbreaking advances in gene therapy), and the work that the CF trust do and fund is fundamental to these advances. 

To everyone who has ever trekked with me, shaved my hair off, jumped out of a plane with me, baked cakes, ran marathons, jumped, gifted, organised, donated…. I will never be able to thank you enough. Every single part contributes to a whole lot. 

If you would like to support our fundraising you can do so here.

I will do an FAQ on gene therapy soon. In the meantime, love plentifully x 

#GSP❤️








Monday, 11 December 2023

Fifteen beautiful years

Our Anouk is 15. The most wonderful, kind, generous, smart and caring girl. We could not be prouder or feel luckier to have her in our lives. 

Dream big my beautiful, the world needs more souls like yours. 




We are still emerging from viral hell (COVID and who knows what, I can no longer tell who had what first, or who has had which bug, which is a worry). I felt so sick one day my actual hair follicles hurt and water tasted like poop. Three lots of IV antibiotics in a near row, exhausted, we are desperate for a break for Isaac and his poor liver. Even more, he so deserves a good Christmas, and we need him well for potential clinical trials. Please keep everything crossed for us that he stays well for a while, that’s all I want for Christmas. 

Have a great day x

Cystic Fibrosis is a life limiting, genetic condition, affecting some 10,000 people in the UK alone. CF sufferers often, as a last resort, need to trade in their damaged CF lungs for the lungs of a generous stranger. To sign up to support organ transplantation, please visit https://www.organdonation.nhs.uk/ and tell your loved ones of your wishes, as even when signed up, the decision becomes theirs after your death. Thank you. 


Friday, 24 November 2023

A life less ordinary

Recovery was going so well. Bloody viruses. We are back to surround sound coughing (Anouk and Isaac right now), and in response, the live-in bacteria camping in his lungs are throwing a mean and nasty party. 

His lung function is down significantly, his oxygen sats low, his infection markers, high. Five days of fevers have at least broken now, which indicates he is over the virus but is left with the pseudomonas party to fight. He was to be admitted, upon his consultants advice, but he refused. A few years ago, hearing this news from others I would have been insistent (there is no choice! If the doctors recommend it, this is a must!) but eighteen years of experience, knowing his own body, and his own response to infection, we have to respect his choice. Of course, this means extreme vigilance at home (checking his O2 sats often) and IV antibiotics (just two weeks after the last course, which even for us, is a record I think). If anything changes, we rush him in. And to be fair, he has been stepping up well and doing his own IV’s. 

As a parent, I can’t tell you how emotionally challenging this is. It being his choice only. But as a mum of a smart, risk informed and lovely kid; of course we want him home, we understand, and we have to respect his decision. For the first time ever, he told me that being on the ward depressed him. That hit hard. Frustrated? Yes, of course, always, but depressed? That has never been part of his lexicon. Listening to him coughing right now, I’m in tears. His poor lungs. His poor throat. His poor head. His poor muscles. His poor back. His poor tummy, which often rejects meals due to excessive coughing. It’s all just so shitty. But he’s right, the only thing he would have on the ward is access to immediate medical care and O2. Being at home he is happier, more rested, and free to make his own choices, even when limited to just the house.  

We do have huge amounts of hope, but right now, his reality is just crappy. I can’t say anything about clinical trials at all now (NDA) but we do have near hope. For now, I’ll cling on to that, and Isaac’s amazing ability to see the best in every situation. I think I lost that somewhere down the line x x x

Puppy therapy 



Saturday, 11 November 2023

Recovery

Relieved to report that the surgery went ahead. One week later, he is headache free, can smell (hurrah) and breathe through his nose once again. I was told the op would be about an hour. Four hours of frantically pacing the familiar corridors, we were finally reunited on the ward. This is the first time that I’ve not been with him in recovery, as he is 18 now, that will only happen in an emergency. Directed to the ward bay, I found it empty and with a strangers belongings on the floor, I’m trying to suppress my mania by this point, and finally find him in the next room. Despite this being his sixth or seventh sinus surgery (we have lost count) we always forget just how bad the first hours are.

The good news is that he was retested with Fentanyl, and had no reaction, so hopefully that was a one off, and we can continue use when needed. He was first on the list (always a very good sign) and by evening he was eating, drinking and getting about just fine. Despite the pain in his whole face, head, and throat from intubation, it’s actually the dry mouth post anaesthesia that he hates the most. After the twelfth jug of water I had to stage an intervention about his drinking issues. 

We are now home and while he should still be on IV antibiotics, he is not. His liver is struggling with the toxicity of one of the two drugs he was on, and it was deemed safer to stop. The hope was to carry on with the course as post sinus surgery, stirring up all those infections, it would give him extra cover (his cough is actually much better). Despite a low level fever for most of the week, his lungs continue to do OK, so we’re happy. Free from all the extra treatments, feels very good - not sure it’s ever much fun to have an inch long needle in ones chest. 

I’ll share what little I can on the gene therapy clinical trials when I can (will be under NDA, so cannot share details on social media) but I can say is that news is patchy, but mostly promising, and we are very, very excited for the NY. 

This week brought news of the NICE decision on the groundbreaking new CFTR modulators drugs (or HEMT as they are often named as now ‘highly effective modulator therapies’ - note the highly effective there!) which work for the majority of CF patients (Isaac is in the 10% who need a different kind of fix). While NICE recognise these drugs as effective, they do not approve the licensing of them in the UK based on cost. I recognise that this is a process, and no child or adult on these drugs now will be denied them going forward, but this is brutal, especially for those under 6 who have not yet started on the drugs and may now not get the chance. Please, if you can, read more here and then register your disgust at the decision which could have knock on effects on research trials and future licensing of effective treatments for the whole CF community. 

Cystic Fibrosis is a life limiting, genetic condition, affecting some 10,000 people in the UK alone. CF sufferers often, as a last resort, need to trade in their damaged CF lungs for the lungs of a generous stranger. To sign up to support organ transplantation, please visit https://www.organdonation.nhs.uk/ and tell your loved ones of your wishes, as even when signed up, the decision becomes theirs after death. Thank you. 

Peace and love x 

Gerhard Richter ❤️



Saturday, 28 October 2023

Home from hospital

We are home after a quick admission, but with plans to go back in this week for surgery and post-op care. Isaac is on much needed IV antibiotics once more, too soon after the last lot, but the surgery should offer a reprieve from this constant cycle of sinus to lung infection. 

This week has been full of tears, joy, hope, disappointment, frustration, bureaucracy, more tears and head banging. Working with two hospitals (one for his surgery, and the other for his CF care) is incredibly difficult for reasons we can’t always fathom. Isaac’s hatred of staying in (he misses home, autonomy, privacy, sleep, and most of all now - his puppy Remy) resulted in painful conversations about the need for him to prioritise his health. I’ve cried myself a river. The next few weeks will be a back and forth to the ward, but for now, he has convinced them that he is better off doing home IVs. Seeing his smile and an ecstatic Remy on his return - made this all feel right. 

While we were in, we had big news on the gene therapy clinical trials. We cannot share information on the trials on s-media, so I’ll be saying very little for now, other than that it’s looking very hopeful to start in the next months. I will share more when we can. The trials can not come soon enough for us, this constant cycle of lung infection and frequent IVs stinks of a decline that we cannot accept. 

Strange, surreal times. For now, Isaac is exhausted but happy, and we will rest and restore x 

Autumnal view of Isaac’s room from the car park 


Not so little now Remicoe ❤️ #germanshorthairedpointer 




Wednesday, 18 October 2023

Vivid reds and deep, deep greens

Sorry for the lack of updates, and thank you to those who have asked after our lovely boy. 

He has kicked bug butt with our super sonic IV arsenal once again, and is feeling much better. Only the damn sinuses trouble him more. He has no sense of smell at all again, and when I accidentally ask him for the third time in a day ‘is that puppy fart?’  he now side-eyes me in frustration. His surgery (his sixth one on his sinuses, or seventh? We’ve honestly lost count) is being scheduled now. His surgeon, the amazing Dr Sharma, is aware of his upcoming clinical trials and the need to have him as well as possible by then. He can’t join a trial within 30 days of IV antibiotics, so timing is everything, and his CF team are planning another course of IVs for before and after surgery to keep the bugs at bay. So far, so good. No counting of chickens just yet; we’ve waited many months for sinus surgery in the past, with the cripplingness of headaches escalating day by day; but the noises sounds good, and we’re hoping for a date pretty soon, all going well (COVID, flu and Nora Virus can fuckedy fuck off please). 

The clinical trials, on the other hand, are delayed. This knocked me for six for a while, especially as we only know of the delay through friends in the community - the clinical team have told us NOTHING. I’d give up emailing if I wasn’t such a lioness for my children. Right now, it looks like Spring 24. I’m mindful of the fact that there are confidentiality challenges, and no one wants to communicate the wrong thing to families waiting for this life line, but still, it hurts to be ignored by your own caregivers. 

Throw into the mix an anxious child starting secondary school disastrously, busy full time work, the onset of winter illnesses (we are now fully flu and COVID vaxxed up, and urge you to do the same - if not for you, then to help protect the vulnerable in society around you), I’m exhausted. We all are. 

But sunny side up that I am, I’m loving autumn. The scents, the colours (lush greens and vivid reds), the suddenly furry ponies, long walks with cold feet and then snuggling up in front of the fire with a dog on your feet? My kinda heaven. Pup Remy is a joy, and Isaac is a doting owner - love like that can’t help but make you smile. 

Once again, I’m finding the news incredibly upsetting, difficult to watch and anxiety provoking. But I do. I think that’s important - to understand, to find your own impartial view of the truth, and then to support in whatever way you can. 

Love, love, love x



Saturday, 9 September 2023

Non disclosure and fruitful hope

When I say life has been a rollercoaster of late, let me clarify; this roller coaster is the Alton Towers kind where you are tossed and turned until you feel your innards in your eye balls. 

On the dips, we are thrown into yet another CF exacerbation (Isaac started IV antibiotics again this week) and new pain management (he needs more sinus surgery, the headaches are debilitating). He has been struggling with fevers and fatigue, and hasn’t been able to work for weeks now. For myself, I’m constantly thinking about clinical trial options, and the fear of signing up to one trial and being prohibited from then joining another for months? Years? This makes an already massive decision feel even more overwhelming. To boot, little Rosa is struggling massively with starting secondary school. At times, I feel so torn inside it takes my breath. 

On the peaks, I remind myself that Isaac is starting to respond to the antibiotics. We have an ENT appointment pending which will hopefully get him on the surgery list. We also gain more clarity and reassurance on our clinical trial options all the time. I am no pushy mum, but I will be a lioness for what is best for my kids. I’m in regular contact with both our clinical trials team at our hospital, the amazing CF Trust, researchers, and other participating hospitals. 

The first trial that I described in my last post, the mRNA one, I have only limited information on, but will have more on very soon (days or weeks). The second, which I do have a lot of information on, I cannot share, as I reviewed their induction information so am under a non-disclosure agreement right now. I will share more when I can. Needless to say, this is, for us, emotive, overwhelming, exciting! It’s also fraught with anxiety - Will he pass the screening? Will he be well enough for the trials? Will we get on the trial? What of the risks? Will he still want to take part, when he knows all the details? 

Ultimately this is, and should be, Isaac’s decision. 

We remind ourselves often that we are so bloody lucky to live in a time, and crucially, a country, where access to these groundbreaking trials is even possible. 

More soon. Have a great day x 

Puppy pain relief….


Lottie love. 








The blue eyed cousins ❤️ 

Friday, 25 August 2023

Joy and dizzying decisions

We are happy, confused, and a little lost. 

My head is like mashed jelly, so I won’t write too much, but essentially, after 18 years of waiting for clinical trials for drugs that actually treat the underlying cause of his disease, rather than just the symptoms, we now have more than one option. We cannot jump from trial to trial, and may be committed to one trial for many months, or even years. The decisions we face are huge. Or maybe not? Maybe we can’t access each of the trials anyway? 

I spend hours writing lists of pros and cons of each in my mind. Efficacy, duration, risks, location, long term treatment options… assuming he passes the screening for the trial in the first place. 

You can learn more about our gene therapy options here - including yours truly. 

Image. The closest I’ve got to a picture of Isaac and I in years. 

The two upcoming trials, which will be recruiting in the coming months, are both hugely promising, but also very different; 

Gene therapy – new copies of the healthy CFTR gene

Known as gene therapy, the aim of this method of genetic therapy is to add healthy copies of the CFTR gene into the cells that line the lungs. The cells’ protein-making machinery will read the instructions from the healthy copy of the CFTR gene and make a fully-functioning copy of the CFTR protein. The tricky bit is getting enough of the healthy copy of the gene to where it needs to be in the cell in a safe and effective way. 

mRNA therapy – extra protein-making templates

DNA is stored in a protected compartment within cells called the nucleus. In the production process for making proteins, a copy or ‘template’ of the DNA is made in the nucleus by a similar chemical called ‘mRNA’. mRNA is then transported out of the nucleus and used as a template for making the protein. When a gene is faulty, as in the case of the CFTR gene in cystic fibrosis, the protein-making-template mRNA will also be faulty. mRNA therapies work by adding undamaged protein-making templates for the CFTR protein into the cell. Like gene therapies, a tricky part of developing an mRNA therapy is working out how to add the healthy mRNA into the cell safely and effectively. 

There are just 5000 people, world wide, with the rare CF mutations that Isaac and the others in the last 10% have, which excludes them from taking current CFTR modulators (CF wonder drugs, for many). 

More soon, when my brain stops feeling like it’s working through the secretions of a snail.

We have hope, and as hard as these decisions feel, how lucky are we? To live in a part of the world where access to these trials, thanks to our NHS, are even possible x



Monday, 14 August 2023

Please don’t try to fix me — I’m not broken

This article rings so true to our experience of ill health and is a good read for anyone supporting someone through sickness. 

‘Please don’t make me comfort you about my uncomfortable circumstances. It shuts down my ability to share what it’s really like for me. I can’t be your support person given my own suffering’. 

One thing you’ll find us doing often is talking through Isaac’s coughing. This isn’t because we don’t hear or care (tiny sharp daggers through my heart) but because the attention for him is both unwanted and unhelpful. He knows when to ask for help x 

Saturday, 15 July 2023

CF tech

As a kid, we had a tiny black and white TV, like most families. I recall my Dad watching the snooker on it, but seemingly knowing the colours of the balls, to my amazement. Later, I inherited this TV. I moved out with it at 17 to my first bed-sit (a room in a crumbling, mice filled house in Cambridge). By then, to watch it at all, you needed to turn the dial ten minutes before, for it to warm up before it worked. I loved that TV and had it for years, while everyone else started on flat screens, I was still square. 

Soon after, I got my first (very sexy fold out) mobile phone, and the World Wide Web and email became a thing. Since then, technology and change became synonymous to me. 

As an asthmatic kid, I remember riding my bike up the hill to the doctors in the next village while having a chest infection. In addition to antibiotics (that they dished out like smarties in those days) they sent me home with a big old nebuliser to help get my asthma under control. I was thankful it was downhill on the way home as the thing weighed a fricken tonne, balanced in my wicker bike basket. Nebulisers vaporise drugs into smaller particles more easily absorbed in the lungs than dry inhalers, making treatment more effective. I had to ride the thing back a few weeks later for the next patient that needed it. Re-use was the norm. 

Years later, I had a son with CF, and by 18 months old, despite daily oral antibiotics, a super nasty bug had moved into his lungs and set up camp. Since then, he has never rid the Pseudomonas nor the need for daily nebulisers to help keep it (somewhat) at bay. We came home with the same big nebuliser that I had known as a kid, but instead of asthma relieving meds, this delivered life-saving antibiotics. It came with elephant like trunking that we were to hang out the window so that vapours would be limited in the air that the rest of us would breathe in the house. Especially important when I was later pregnant with the girls. 

Image: Little Isaac with long line, reaching from his ankle to groin. 

Nebulising colomycin in those days meant 30 minutes or more of trying to keep Isaac sat down long enough to breathe in the drugs, Thomas the Tank Engine proved key to our success; full volume to help drown out the noise of the machine long enough for him to inhale enough medicine. Twice a day. Sometimes he cried. Sometimes he fell asleep. Sometimes we could make it a game. Sometimes we cried. Later, as more advances in treatment came along (drugs to thin his mucous, drugs to help draw water into his lungs) his daily nebulisers became two, three, four, five and then six times a day. This meant hours of mask time, with a super active kid who just wanted - quite rightly, to go out and play. 

Then came the e-Flow, a much quicker nebuliser, but still tied to the mains. But soon after that came the gold that was - the iNeb. Silent, portable, small. Not only breath activated, but breath activated in the sense that it releases the drug only at the moment when the airways are at their most open, making it super effective. Each dose could be done in a matter of minutes (depending on his concentration, which varied massively). No longer a mask, but a mouth piece, meaning he could stop and start as he wanted. 

The iNeb was a game changer. His/our quality of life changed beyond words. He could do treatments in the car. He could do them in bed. As long as we could sterilise the parts, he could do them camping or on the moon. All with a handheld device. The iNeb costs somewhere in the region of £3K. In the UK, we were fortunate enough for this to be gratis on the basis of our doctors prescribing a brand of colomycin from the pharma that created the iNeb - essentially the same drug, but more expensive on the basis that you get the device for free, and treatment would be more effective because of the delivery into his airways. 

This kind of technology needs to be made available worldwide for CF patients now. 

Image: Little Ise self portrait. 

In the pandemic, things advanced rapidly. Once reliant on going into hospital at least every 8 weeks (we average on 10 CF clinic visits per year, not counting admissions, ENT clinic, six-weekly port flushes and other tests) to test his lung function (the key measure of wellness in CF) - now we had a home LF testing kit which we could hook up to our iPhone and report in data directly to clinic as often as we liked. We also began virtual clinical reviews. When he is well, these are a blessing - it’s one less trip into the hospital, saves hours, and is just all round more enjoyable for him (clinic visits to see his whole multi disciplinary team typically last 4-6 hours). Virtual clinics also help limit his risk of acquiring other bugs in a hospital environment (that said, they are not always appropriate, and occasionally, we end up going in anyway; Describing the sound, frequency and depth of a rattling cough is not always easy, and not a replacement for a stethoscope or hands wrapped around his ribs). We also have new tech to measure his O2 saturation, his weight, and his exercise tolerance. 

As a little one, physio was typically chest percussion - tapping on the chest walls repeatedly, and asking him to huff and cough at intervals to try and clear the sticky mucous. Advanced technology means we now have small handheld devices that use magnets to create a fluttering force against his breath that help shake his lungs. In the UK, we do not typically use ‘the Vest’ often used in the US, as they say the clinical data shows no more positive effects over more manual forms we have here. 

Image: Little Anouk with her recycled CF meds monsters.

In terms of hardware, by far our biggest advance was having his portacath inserted when he was thirteen. Before this, a huge part of CF life (heartbreak and trauma) revolved around gaining venous access to deliver the much needed antibiotics directly into his bloodstream. I cannot even try to guess how many needles, cannulas, long lines and PICC lines he had inserted over the years before his portacath. The scars on his ankles, hands, wrists and arms are reminders. I can say with horrible certainty that the failed attempts to get a line in sadly outnumber the successes. His port is now six years old and still going strong (they typically last 5-10 years, after which he will need surgery for a new one, which will need to be on the other side of his chest). His venous access when he was in ICU forced the portacath decision forward, one he had put off before, but now we could not be more thankful. Although it needs regular access and flushing even when he is well, it has no doubt reduced his needle stabbings a hundred fold. 

One of the research trials I am aware of, that could potentially make a huge difference to the quality of life for people with CF is around tech enabled infection detection that we could use at home (for now, we send in sputum to the lab and wait for it to grow on a Petri dish, which delays treatment by at least 5-7 days for most bacteria, longer for others). A simple breath test that could signal infection and strain. How amazing is that? 

I’ve not even mentioned the advances in testing, CT, MRI, blood screens that we have no doubt benefited from in his 18 years. What might the increased use of data and AI mean for us? Huge change for sure, this is powerful stuff. And all these hopes, when you’re waiting for a cure? Mean a lot. 

Today has been a great day. All three kids in the garden tonight, playing some kind of football/basket ball mash up…. giggles galore…. the most beautiful music to my ears. For now, Isaac is stable. Going downhill for sure, but tentatively confident we can put off his next IVs until after his upcoming holiday in France with family friends. He is a hero among scientific heroism x 



Sunday, 25 June 2023

My world in pictures

Sorry for the lack of posts. It’s not because nothing is happening, NGL (as the kids say), it’s all going on. Isaac is stable, but life is crazy mad around us. Big news on clinical trials to come, we hope. 

This post is dedicated to my three crazy gorgeous children and our ever growing animal family. 

Meet Remy, Isaac’s own pup (another GSP, brother for our Obie). More Lottie pony love. And art with my amazing Anouk, Yayoi Kusama infinity mirrors at the TateM ❤️















Sunday, 7 May 2023

She dreams in colour, she dreams in red

Things are settled again in Moly World. Two weeks of IVs, done. In the midst of this course I needed to go away to Madrid for work (I work full time in publishing, a job I love, and some of my team are based in Spain, so I’m lucky to be able to visit fairly often). I have had to cancel trips in the past for Isaac’s health, so this was the first time I was able to go, and felt safe and reassured enough to do so, as he has taken on more of his treatments himself. I honestly could not be more proud. Five doses of IV antibiotics a day, mixing them up from scratch, ensuring everything is sterile and safe - this is a huge responsibility, and he did not take that lightly. When I got back, he even offered to do more independently when he could see how busy I was. To share this, and feel OK about it? That is huge. I am growing. 

He is now almost back to baseline. His LF is not close to where we’d like it, but it’s climbing and the drugs will continue to have an effect for a few more days. We wait patiently (me, screaming silently in my mind) for gene therapy clinical trials to start enrolling. 

I’ve posted before about the work that I do with the Cystic Fibrosis Trust. Up until now, this has been adhoc, as and when they need people for patient (or family) insight or advocacy in certain forums (typically with researchers or pharmaceuticals). I’m now very proud to have been asked to join the Research Grants Review Committee, meaning I get to review and have a say on what research grants are funded by the charity. I really enjoy everything that I do with the Trust, especially meeting CF patients and parents, and, crucially, getting an early insight into research. 

Today has been a home day sorting out clothes for a big charity drop off (long overdue, and I haven’t even started with the kids clothes under the bed) - loud music blaring. Otherwise, our days are mostly filled with our four legged family and watching spring unfold (always a reminder of hope and wonder). Have a great day x x x 

Cystic Fibrosis is a life limiting, genetic condition, affecting some 10,000 people in the UK alone. CF sufferers often, as a last resort, need to trade in their damaged CF lungs for the lungs of a generous stranger. To sign up to support organ transplantation, please visit https://www.organdonation.nhs.uk/ and tell your loved ones of your wishes, as even when signed up, the decision becomes theirs after death. Thank you. 





Thursday, 20 April 2023

Buggy

The bugs have got the best of us. We managed to draw out some time with intensive oral antibiotics, but in the end, they won the battle of the lungs. For now. Now we bring out the big guns. 

Isaac started IV abx yesterday. He lung function tests are pants, his symptoms, worse, his resilience and humour? As strong as ever. 

We were to be admitted to the ward, but they have no beds. This is both a blessing and a curse. Normally I would fight for home IVs with every cell in my body (his quality of life is paramount, and while hospital stays in adult care are so much easier than in over-stretched wards in paediatrics, it’s still difficult for us all, and we ultimately miss him terribly even when we visit all day every day). But this time? I suspected that the extra tests, vigilance and physio he would get on the ward would be more appropriate. Anyway, it is what it is. No doubt the hangover from Junior Dr and Nursing strikes have an impact. 

Having been witness to the amazing efforts of our nurses and junior doctors for 18 years now, despite this extra burden on us, we wholeheartedly support these strikes for not only fair pay, but for adequate support and working conditions for our amazing NHS staff. 

Isaac is on the drug cocktail (he always has two antibiotics at a time on IVs, and they vary that mix to try and tackle the bugs squatting in his lungs) that leaves him very tired. He coughs, he eats, he sleeps. And still, he is the best company ever. 

Have a great day x

Pictures; My two most gorgeous boys after a day of work; Anouk’s young love; and our Lottie (equine therapy is the best). 

Cystic Fibrosis is a life limiting, genetic condition, affecting some 10,000 people in the UK alone. CF sufferers often, as a last resort, need to trade in their damaged CF lungs for the lungs of a generous stranger. To sign up to support organ transplantation, please visit https://www.organdonation.nhs.uk/ and tell your loved ones of your wishes, as even when signed up, the decision becomes theirs after your death. Thank you. 








Sunday, 12 March 2023

The familiar feeling of dread

The last few weeks have been full of bliss and laughter; ponies, nature, and celebrating. Isaac (whose name means ‘the laughing one’) turned eighteen, which was more emotional than I had imagined. I know I say it here all the time, but he really is the loveliest, bravest and kindest boy, and we couldn’t be prouder. The way he just takes all the shitty knocks in his stride is inspirational to all of us who know him. So thankful he was well enough for his week of celebrations (presents, curry house, family, friends and a party), but the bugs are now getting the better of him yet again. 

I can’t tell you how much I hate CF; I recognise this is a pointless waste of energy, but I do. For all it puts him through and robs him of. We’ll now start extra oral antibiotics to try and put off what feels like the inevitable; an exacerbation which only intensive IV antibiotics will dampen. His last course was just before Christmas, so it’s not a bad run for him, but still, I’ll never stop hoping for more. His lung function is down, but other test results from his recent annual review were more stable. Swings and roundabouts. Laugher and tears. Clinical trials feature regularly in my dreams, and give us hope, but we need this chance now, before his lungs are further damaged. 

Since it’s still lurgy season for all, I’ll share a few of the things we try (beyond his CF drugs and physio) that can help with constant coughing, in case they can help you too: 

  • Keep well hydrated, like, super soaked, it will thin mucous and make it easier to clear. 
  • Ibuprofen for rib pain. 
  • Vitamin C (may not prevent infection, but can lessen longevity of symptoms). 
  • Sleep propped up on very firm pillows (we love a U shape one by Byre (available on Amazon) which is often used in pregnancy, we’ve found nothing firmer, and it never loses its shape). 
  • Hot honey and lemon. 
  • Huffing can be more effective than coughing at clearing mucous. Breathe deeply, sit straight, look up and huff hard and sharp, as quickly as you can. Can also be softer on the throat. 
  • Air purifiers. 
  • Fresh air and exercise, but rest too. Coughing and difficulty breathing uses a lot more energy than you’d imagine. 
Isaac rarely lets me catch him with a camera now, so here is one as I still picture him today. Love, love, love x 



Thursday, 23 February 2023

Exciting possibilities

I’ve just come from a live Q&A session with an expert panel on advances in genetic therapies and CF. I can honestly say I’ve never been so excited about research, nor so optimistic about having a clinical trial that could make such a huge difference so within our reach. I can almost touch it… 

The panel that I was a part of tonight was recorded and will be available to view at some point, but in the meantime, this CFF (US) video will give you an insight into our potential options. Trials in the UK start later this year. It’s all a bit mind blowing after no possible options (to treat the underlying cause of his disease, rather than just the symptoms) for almost 18 years. 

Next post… 18 years of our wonderful boy x

Dali drawing following a Dali VR adventure (fully recommend this exhibition) with these beautiful friends x 







Sunday, 12 February 2023

Earthquakes, war and new love

Meet the newest member of the Moly clan. Another beloved four legged friend. The older I get, the more  I realise how important animals are for my, our, mental well-being. We are in love. Rosa is besotted. The whole family are enjoying this wonderful new lifestyle. 

Rosa is a superhero dyslexic and has always found everything about school life incredibly difficult. Riding has been the first thing she has felt truly good at (despite her having many other talents not so valued in the curriculum) and this new confidence has helped her no end. It’s so wonderful to see her wings grow and in something she absolutely loves. 

So far, this has been a month un-blighted by CF so much. We had a day in hospital for Isaac’s annual review. Tests galore, for which we now await the results. I can never say I’m not anxious when we’re waiting on test results, but it does become easier over time. Somehow. 

For now, we are feeling so unbelievably lucky; to be enjoying a period of good health, to have hope of a somewhat cure (see my last post here about ground breaking new gene therapy, for which Isaac should be eligible for trials, and which in the last month, he has made an important decision to try, should he be able, which is massive) and to be able to extend our love, time (and limited funds! - huge thank you to my Mum and Stepdad here for helping) to enjoy a new pony. 

At the same time, our thoughts right now are in Syria, Turkey and Ukraine 🇺🇦 and the atrocities they are enduring…. simply heartbreaking. I hope, like us, you have been able to donate to help save lives (If not, you can do so here).

This is our Lottie ❤️






Sunday, 29 January 2023

New year, new hope?

It’s been a while, but that’s a good sign. 

Isaac’s most recent IV’s finished a week before Christmas, with him feeling much better. Since then, he’s been pretty good. We all enjoyed a festive break full of much needed sleep, family, friends, celebrations, and house de-cluttering. Before going back to work, I spent three feral days in PJ’s, working all day….moving round furniture, cleaning, packing up bags for charity, loud music blaring. Me in my element. I got to spend so much quality time with my Anouk and Rosa too, and a quick family trip to Center Parcs. My beautiful girls astound me everyday. I am one lucky Mama. 

For these IVs, I successfully accessed his portacath myself, my third time. Today, the community nurses came round for his routine flush and despite my growing confidence, I frustratingly failed. His port site is very scarred now, and his port is very small (he had it implanted when he was 13, so he’s grown a lot since then). Not all nurses can access it either, first, second or third times, so I know it’s not just me, but still… sticking an inch long needle down into his chest is not fun. My being able to do his port flushes means one less trip to hospital a month (our paediatric community nurses leave us once he turns 18 in March, and after that our only other option is going into clinic). I am determined to keep trying, and on his part, he is a very patient patient. 

I’ve enjoyed working more with the CF Trust of late, both in focus groups for them, and as a patient  representative for scientists and pharmaceutical companies. This week I had the pleasure of hearing Dr Eric Alton talk again about gene therapy and up coming trials. Way before CFTR modulators became the buzz drugs in CF land, gene therapy seemed our best option of a cure (…of sorts. There is ultimately no cure of cures, but I believe there will be treatments that help halt or slow the progression of the disease). 

When Isaac was first diagnosed we followed gene therapy news with eager anticipation, salivating at any news of progress. Basically, Dr Alton was our GOD. But then it stalled. It was funded, and then not. It was in trials, and then not. They tried a lipid vector to transport the corrected CFTR gene into the lungs, and then not. Then they teamed up with a much needed pharmaceutical to fund further research into using viral vectors, and it went a bit…. quiet. Or maybe it didn’t, maybe CFTR modulators just grabbed all the headlines. Anyway, the trials are now ON. I'm not sure how much I can say about these yet, only that Phase 1 and 2 are planned and likely to start, in the UK, later this year. As an adult (just) and one of the 10% of people with CF whom current CFTR modulators do not work, Isaac should be both eligible and prioritised for clinical trials. 

This is heart bangingly exciting, scary and overwhelming all at once. For one, he may not be accepted in the trials. Or he may not want to commit (the trials mean stays in hospital, intensive treatment, and rigorous follow up over 15 years - in which time he cannot commit to any other similar trials). Or he does participate, and the treatment isn't tolerated or effective. 

It’s also very new and despite the excellent results in non-human trials, the residual risks linger. Previous gene therapy trials resulted in cancer in patients. 

What would you do? If your lung health was declining, and your quality of life was already impaired, not just symptomatically, but by the aggressive treatment regime? In the last year Isaac has spent three months on IV antibiotics. With every exacerbation he risks losing more lung function, and decreased QOL. Would you jump at the chance of something which could, ultimately, make a huge difference?  Which may result in far fewer daily treatments, drugs, subsequent side effects, IVs, boring hospital stays, and invasive procedures? When you think of it like that, it seems like a no-brainwork right? 

But it’s Isaac. Our brilliant, wonderful, gorgeous Isaac. 

2023 is looking like a big year for us. A potential drug that would treat the underlying cause of his disease, for the very first time; that is seismic. Alongside this, we're heading into a very exciting weekend for the whole family, more news on that and pictures to follow. A new family member ❤️

Love x

Rosa teaching me selfie etiquette…